Discovery

For the actor…

A big tool in your arsenal for making it feel like the first time, is discovery. Everywhere in the text, find moments where your character can be surprised. The more you dig, the more discoveries you will unearth.

And a way to activate discovery, especially in auditions or early in the rehearsal process, is to make a slightly audible “Oh!” at each one. (Thanks to my friend and wonderful actor/teacher Kurt Naebig, for this tip.) You can drop the “Oh!” later on, but the sense of discovery will stay with you. Kinda like muscle memory.

(And if it’s a negative discovery, feel free to substitute an “Oh!” with a “D’oh!.” Equally effective. 🙂

The audience loves to watch characters discover. Just like when you’re interested, we’re interested, when you’re surprised, we’re surprised. Which in turn, brings us joy and keeps us engaged.

Like The First Time

For the actor…

No one ever forgets their first time. Including the audience.

You must act as if you’re saying and hearing these lines for the very first time. Besides being the strongest and most vulnerable choice, it’s the craft. It’s the job.

The audience paid good money and sacrificed considerable time to come see this exciting story get told. To watch you make huge discoveries in the process.

Give them a first time they’ll never forget.

“I Believe In You.”

“I believe in you.”

Behind many a success story, is someone who believed in that person early on.  Like Denzel Washington talks about here. And Alex Rodriguez talks about here.

The greatest gift you can give another person is to believe in them.  Especially when they don’t yet believe in themselves.

The next time someone is brave enough to share with you their deepest desires, look them squarely in the eye and tell them.  “I believe in you.”  And mean it with all your whole heart and soul.

You can believe it into existence.

You can change a life.

Who can then change the world.

By the way, in case you were wondering…

“I believe in you.”

P.S. – This song.

Physician Or Patient?

Do you want affirmation? Or thoughtful and critical feedback?

Do you want to stay comfortable and complacent? Or do the sometimes uncomfortable work, of getting better?

Do you want to remain fixed in your ideas and skillset? Or are you open to learn new things?

Do you want to be healed? Or tell the physician how to do their job?

The first step is being honest in what you want.

If it’s to grow and get better, then the second step is to be open, humble and surrender.

Let go.

When you do, that’s when the exciting change can happen.

Multitudes

We’re all stardust. We’re all connected.

Knowing this, don’t envy another’s success. For their success is your success.

Don’t judge anyone else. For their failures are your failures.

Don’t limit yourself. The possibilities are infinite.

For you contain multitudes.

Just Decide

Decision stems from the Latin words “de” which means “from” and “caedere” which means “to cut off.” So when you decide to do something, you are literally cutting yourself off from all other (often some really good, fun and potentially lucrative) possibilities. That cutting off, coupled with the fact that an entire economy has emerged centered around distracting us, makes deciding more difficult than ever.

But me must.

Just decide.

Pick something. Anything. One thing.

(And then take massive and continuous action towards it.)

P.S. – This article on the distraction economy.

P.P.S. – This article on Jane Goodall

You Gotta Constantly Fill Yourself Up

Just like athletes, the artist must take care of their body, mind and spirit. A disciplined routine that includes proper sleep, nutrition, exercise and meditation is worth investing in.

Also, the artist must constantly be inspired. Take in and appreciate great art in all its forms. Pay attention to what you’re consuming. Guard your attention like a hawk.

While creativity is abundant, you need to be open, available and in peak form to tap into it.

You gotta constantly fill yourself up.

Otherwise, you’ll have nothing to pour out.

And remember, you are the power plant.

P.S. – This great Billy Oppenheimer newsletter.

In The Middle

Clowns to the left of me
Jokers to the right
Here I am stuck in the middle with you
-song “Stuck In The Middle With You” by Stealers Wheel

For the audition, the performance, the business meeting, the pitch, the presentation, etc…

It didn’t go as well as you think. Nor did it go as badly as you fear.

The truth usually lies somewhere in the middle. A little time and distance reveals this.

Which is why an honest, objective, post game reflection (like the post show notebook practice) is vital. That’s the only way you can grow. Which is what it’s all about, right? Process. Process. Process.

Strive to get today’s middle better than yesterday’s best.

Turn Over The Most Stones

Peter Lynch, arguably the greatest stock picker of all time, was fond of saying, “The person who turns over the most stones, wins the game.” The amount of companies Lynch analyzed while running The Magellan Fund was legendary. He even turned shopping at the mall and family vacations into fun excursions to learn about companies. He was always curious, always looking, always learning. His classic book, “One Up On Wall Street” is one of the best investing books ever written. It’s a terrific and inspiring read, full of compelling stories and still holds up.

Lynch’s advice also applies to producing. If you’re hunting for a great script, you’ve got to read, read, read, and then read some more. Never stop reading.

If you want to find the gold, you’ve got to turn over the most stones.