If someone wants to hire you (assuming the project interests you), the first two questions you should immediately ask the person are:
-Why are you doing this? (How did this originate? What’s your goal? Etc.)
-When is your (rough) deadline to ship this?
If they don’t have good answers, you have two choices:
-You can spend time with them to help clarify their why and set a deadline. Then see if that aligns with your why for producing and your current schedule.
-You can pass.
But you’re certainly not ready to say yes. Let alone move on to the next two important questions. Which are:
-Who is this for?
-What is your budget?
Clarifying intent and establishing timelines are two of the most valuable skills you can bring to any project. Including your own.
“One’s own dharma performed imperfectly is better than another’s dharma well performed…It is better to strive in one’s own dharma than to succeed in the dharma of another.” -Bhagavad Gita
“Happy. Just in my swim shorts, barefooted, wild-haired, in the red fire dark, singing, swigging wine, spitting, jumping, running — that’s the way to live. All alone and free in the soft sands of the beach….” –The Dharma Bums, novel by Jack Kerouac
While the word “dharma” is not easily defined, it can be understood as behaving in accord with the orders and customs that sustain life. Being virtuous. Doing one’s duty. Living harmoniously with the cosmos.
Consider it your duty to find and follow your dharma. Because when you’re lit up, you light us up too.
“The object isn’t to make art, it’s to be in that wonderful state which makes art inevitable.” -Robert Henri
“As you deepen your participation in the creative act, you may come across a paradox. Ultimately, the act of self-expression isn’t really about you. Most who choose the artist’s path don’t have a choice. We feel compelled to engage, as if by some primal instinct, the same force that calls turtles toward the sea after hatching in the sand. We follow this instinct. To deny it is dispiriting, as if we are in violation of nature. If we zoom out, we see this blind impulse is always there, guiding our aim beyond ourselves. In the moment when we feel the work is taking shape, there’s a dynamic surge, followed by an urge to share, in the hopes of replicating that mysterious emotional charge in others. This is the call to self-express, our creative purpose. It’s not necessarily to understand ourselves or be understood. We share our filter, our way of seeing, in order to spark an echo in others. Art is a reverberation of an impermanent life.” –The Creative Act: A Way of Being by Rick Rubin
Erik Rittenberry (check out his wonderful Substack, Poetic Outlaws) recently shared the below advice to writers. However, I think it’s applicable to any artist in any discipline. Or anyone aspiring to produce a passion project….
Advice?
I don’t have advice.
Stop aspiring and start writing. If you’re writing, you’re a writer. Write like you’re a goddamn death row inmate and the governor is out of the country and there’s no chance for a pardon.
Write like you’re clinging to the edge of a cliff, white knuckles, on your last breath, and you’ve got just one last thing to say, like you’re a bird flying over us and you can see everything, and please, for God’s sake, tell us something that will save us from ourselves.
Take a deep breath and tell us your deepest, darkest secret, so we can wipe our brow and know that we’re not alone. Write like you have a message from the king.
Or don’t.
Who knows, maybe you’re one of the lucky ones who doesn’t have to.
If you don’t have to do it, don’t do it.
If you have to do it, do it. By any means necessary. Just ensure you put your whole heart and soul into it. Otherwise, you’re not really doing it.
“Pure love, careless of all things, kindles the soul.” -Seneca
“Let us be full of love. Let us tell those we love that we absolutely and totally love them. Let us answer with love to every situation and problem we face….Almost every situation is made better when it is full of love.” -Ryan Holiday, The Daily Stoic
“So many names, there is barely room on the walls of the heart.” -The final line from the poem, The Names, US poet laureate Billy Collins’ ode to the victims of the 9/11 attack. Read in full here. Listen in full here.
“You blame your prior convictions. But they’re not to blame. You yourself are to blame. You never understood that just having convictions doesn’t lead to success. You should have done something! -Maria Vasilyevna speaking to Voinitsky in Uncle Vanya by Anton Chekhov (Annie Baker adaptation)
“Thank you for the excellent company. I respect your, uh, way of thinking and your enthusiasm and spontaneity. But allow an old man some parting words–just one observation…Do something with your lives, ladies and gentlemen! You must always take action and do something!….I wish you all the best.” _Serebryakov’s parting advice in Uncle Vanya by Anton Chekhov (Annie Baker adaptation)
The bridge between knowing and doing is massive.
There are lots of people on one side. (The knowers.)
“Do not pay any attention to the rules other people make. Forget Edgar Allan Poe and O. Henry and write the kind of stories you feel like writing. Learn to typewrite, so you can turn out stories as fast as Zane Grey.” -William Saroyan, from his preface in his short story collection, The Daring Young Man on the Flying Trapeze
William Saroyan (born 1908 in Fresno, CA; died 1981) was an Armenian-American novelist, playwright, and short story writer. He won the Pulitzer Prize in 1940 for his play The Time Of Your Life (he refused the award because he believed commerce should not judge the arts), and the Academy Award in 1943 for Best Story for the film The Human Comedy (his original treatment was rejected by the studio, so he turned it into a novel).
Saroyan wrote extensively about the Armenian immigrant life in California. Many of his stories and plays are set in his native Fresno. He grew up very poor, including spending five years in an orphanage starting at age three. (He was later reunited with his family in Fresno when he was eight.) In his short story collection, My Name Is Aram, Saroyan called his childhood “the most amazing and comical poverty in the world.” As a young man, he worked a variety of odd jobs and traveled extensively throughout the San Joaquin Valley, and much of his early writing reflects this experience.
Besides his talent, Saroyan was known for his blazing speed and prodigious output of work (sadly later in his life, also known for his heavy drinking and gambling). He’s written nine novels, fifteen short story collections, nearly forty plays and over a dozen essays and memoirs. He famously wrote The Time Of Your Life in six days at New York’s Great Northern Hotel. Although in an interview Saroyan said, ‘You can’t just say I wrote this play in six days and let it go at that. It really means six days – and 30 years.”
Saroyan is regarded as one of the most underrated literary figures of the 20th century. Kurt Vonnegut called him “the first and still the greatest of all the American minimalists.”
Gene Kelly as Harry the Hoofer (center) entertains the patrons in Nick’s bar in the 1939 Broadway production of William Saroyan’s play.
”Most writers strain too hard to produce, especially in the movies. Since all art consists of capturing and presenting a section of life, why should characters and plots be forced?” -William Saroyan
Following on the heels of his successful debut play, My Heart’s in the Highlands (produced by the Group Theatre), The Time Of Your Life opened in October, 1939, at The Booth Theatre on Broadway. (Saroyan actually directed the production after seeing early rehearsals in New Haven. He dismissed that director and completely restaged it for Broadway.) It was an instant success and immediately entered the canon of great American plays. Besides winning the Pulitzer, The Time Of Your Life also won the New York Drama Critics’ Circle award, becoming the first play to win both. It’s been revived three times on Broadway; was made into a film in 1948, starring James Cagney; and twice filmed for TV. The Royal Shakespeare did a star-studded production in 1983 and in 2002, Steppenwolf Theatre under the direction of Tina Landau, did a much heralded revival.
Set in a San Francisco waterfront bar called Nick’s Tavern (based on a real place Saroyan frequented called Izzy’s), The Time Of Your Life offers a rich tapestry of human life. Wistful dreamers, hobo-cowboy fabulists, pining lonely hearts, and beer-hall-philosophers are among many other eccentrics who all populate Nick’s. There is “much humor, a touch of menace, and a refrain of despair. No foundation. All the way down the line.” as The New York Times wrote.
Steppenwolf Theatre production, 2002
“What I love about it is that it fluctuates between these two extremes which are the nitty, gritty reality of street life and money and cold places and no shoes and the word which appears in more thirties songs that any other word, which is dream. There are so many songs about the dream. And Joe’s first line to Kitty, which is “What’s the dream?” That line is very mysterious to me. And the more I think about the play and because I’ve been listening to and playing through a lot of music of the period, I’ve realized the dream, with a capital T and a capital D is a big thing. So I love, I love, there’s this Oscar Wilde quote, and I’m going to misquote it, but it’s something like, “We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars,” but it’s that pull of opposites, which is also what we’re trying to follow through in the designs, which is on the one hand a kind of really exposed, raw, human, prosaic word, and a world that romance and a belief in a better future and I think Saroyan does that too, in that on the one hand he’s looking at a group of people who are, you know, one could consider to be the down-and-outers, the disenfranchised, the, it’s a motley crew. And at the same time they’re filled with these incredible longings for what is good and beautiful and true and that’s what I find in his writing, is this great mixture of the hardships of reality and the beauty of the dream.” -Tina Landau
(b) they love it so much and are so confident in their love of the show, that they’re willing to risk being judged wrong in their assessment.
(c) it’s a generous act; it makes people feel good to know they were a linchpin of sorts; that they told others about your show and those others showed up and also loved it.
Ask yourself when’s the last time you went out on a limb and strongly recommended something to people.
“Today I will be master of my emotions…The tides advance; the tides recede. Winter goes and summer comes. Summer wanes and the cold increases. The sun rises; the sun sets. The moon is full; the moon is black. The birds arrive; the birds depart. Flowers bloom; flowers fade. Seeds are sown; harvests are reaped. All nature is a circle of moods and I am a part of nature and so, like the tides, my moods will rise; my moods will fall…Today I will be master of my emotions…It is one of nature’s tricks, little understood, that each day I awaken with moods that have changed from yesterday. Yesterday’s joy will become today’s sadness; yet today’s sadness will grow into tomorrow’s joy. Inside me is a wheel, constantly turning from sadness to joy, from exultation to depression, from happiness to melancholy. Like the flowers, today’s full bloom of joy will fade and wither into despondency, yet I will remember that as today’s dead flower carries the seed of tomorrow’s bloom so, too, does today’s sadness carry the seed of tomorrow’s joy…Today I will be master of my emotions.” -Og Mandino, book The Greatest Salesman In The World
Joy (Pump, pump, pump it up) and pain (Come on, come on, here we go) Like sunshine (What else? What else?) and rain (Ah yeah, here we go) Joy (Come on, come on, here we go) and pain (Pump, pump, pump, pump it up) Like sunshine (Yeah) and rain -song, “Joy and Pain” by Rob Base & DJ E-Z Rock
I love the below passage in Nikolai Gogol’s absurdist short story, “The Nose”…
After the police officer had left, the collegiate assessor remained for a few minutes in a sort of indefinable state and only after several minutes recovered the capacity to see and feel: his unexpected joy had made him lose his senses. He carefully took the newly found nose in both his cupped hands and once again examined it thoroughly.
“That’s it, that’s it, all right,” said Major Kovalyov. “Here on the left side is the pimple which swelled up yesterday.” The major very nearly laughed with joy.
But there is nothing enduring in this world, and that is why even joy is not as keen in the moment that follows the first; and a moment later it grows weaker still and finally merges imperceptibly into one’s usual state of mind, just as a ring on the water, made by the fall of a pebble, merges finally into the smooth surface. Kovalyov began to reflect and realized that the whole business was not yet over: the nose was found but it still had to be affixed, put in its proper place.
“And what if it doesn’t stick?”
At this question, addressed to himself, the major turned pale.
One of the many wonderful things about art is its ability to spotlight and heighten moments of joy (and pain). There’s one such moment in the Geffen’s current production of THE BROTHER’S SIZE by Tarell Alvin McCraney (a must see) that’s really stuck with me. The two Size brothers, Ogun and Oshoosi, after much conflict, come together in song (Otis Redding’s “Try A Little Tenderness”). It’s a beautiful, uplifting moment and you wish it could last forever. The heartbreaking thing is that just like life, it can’t.
While it’s sad that joy is fleeting, it reminds us to not hold on to anything. Be in the moment, and then let it pass through you. That way, you can be fully alive and present in the next moment.
Also, remember that while joy is fleeting, so is sorrow. Take comfort in that. Nothing lasts forever. This too shall pass.
P.S. – This scene. Andie, I still maintain that you should’ve chosen Duckie.
P.P.S. – This song for when you need a little boost.
You might be tempted to think that not feeling like doing something indicates you’re on the wrong path.
Don’t fall for the trap.
“Not Feelin’ It” is just another insidious way The Resistance tries to derail your worthwhile efforts.
There are many, many “not feelin’ it” things you have to do in the course of a day, a week, a month, a year, a lifetime, that are in service of something bigger and greater. Including the things you’re passionate about.
Remind yourself of your why. Get back to work. And trust that “feelin’ it” is right around the corner. Because it is.
“Every one of us is shadowed by an illusory person: a false self. We are not very good at recognizing illusions, least of all the ones we cherish about ourselves. Contemplation is not and cannot be a function of this external self. There is an irreducible opposition between the deep transcendent self that awakens only in contemplation, and the superficial, external self which we commonly identify with the first person singular. Our reality, our true self, is hidden in what appears to us to be nothingness….We can rise above this unreality and recover our hidden reality…God Himself begins to live in me not only as my Creator but as my other and true self.” -Thomas Merton, New Seeds Of Contemplation
“There, and you say you are dying! Lie still and get warm, that’s our way…” began Vasili Andreevich.
But to his great surprise he could say no more, for tears came to his eyes and his lower jaw began to quiver rapidly. He stopped speaking and only gulped down the risings in his throat. “Seems I was badly frightened and have gone quite weak,” he thought. But this weakness was not only not unpleasant, but gave him a peculiar joy such as he had never felt before.
“That’s our way!” he said to himself, experiencing a strange and solemn tenderness. He lay like that for a long time, wiping his eyes on the fur of his coat and tucking under his knee the right skirt, which the wind kept turning up.
But he longed so passionately to tell somebody of his joyful condition that he said: “Nikita!”
“It’s comfortable, warm!” came a voice from beneath.
“There, you see, friend, I was going to perish. And you would have been frozen, and I should have…” But again his jaws began to quiver and his eyes to fill with tears, and he could say no more.
“Well, never mind,” he thought. “I know about myself what I know.” He remained silent and lay like that for a long time.” -excerpt from the shorty story, “Master And Man” by Leo Tolstoy
“We don’t have to become an entirely new person to do better; our view just has to be readjusted, our natural energy turned in the right direction. We don’t have to swear off our powers or repent of who we are or what we like to do or are good at doing. Those are our horses; we just have to hitch them to the right, uh, sled.
What kept Vasili so small all his life? (What is keeping us so small now?) He wasn’t small, actually, as proven by his end. He was infinite. He had access to as much great love as any of our beloved spiritual heroes. Why did he live out his life in that small country of selfishness? What was it that finally jolted him out of it? Well, it was truth. He saw that his idea of himself was untrue. His idea that he was himself was untrue. All of those years, he was only part of himself. He had made that part, was always making it and defending it, with his thoughts and his pride and his desire to win, which continually separated him, Vasili, from everything else. As that entity, Vasili, faded away, what was left behind discerned the fallacy and joined (rejoined) the great non-Vasili of it all.
If we could reverse the process (let him come alive again, warm that body up, melt away the snow, cause him to forget all he’s learned tonight) what we would see would be a mind gradually reasserting a series of lies: “You are separate” and “You are central” and “You are correct” and “Go forth and prove that you are better, that you are the best.
And then he would be all the way himself again.”
-excerpt from the book, A Swim in a Pond in the Rain: In Which Four Russians Give a Master Class on Writing, Reading, and Life by George Saunders
See the world as your self. Have faith in the way things are. Love the world as your self; then you can care for all things. -“Tao Te Ching” by Lao Tzu (Stephen Mitchell translation)
Another name we can give the “false self” which Thomas Merton and other mystics identified, is the “small self.” The self of scarcity. The self of the singular. The self that’s only concerned with one person: Me, Myself and I. It’s a woefully incomplete and inadequate version.
Instead, see you in everyone and everyone in you. When you do, the whole world opens up. The illusion is shattered. The true self or large “SELF” emerges. The SELF of abundance. The SELF of compassion. The SELF that contain multitudes. The unstoppable SELF.
“Even if we can’t beat fate, we can nevertheless give fortune a hard time.” -Plutarch writing aboutCato The Younger
“A man can be destroyed, but not defeated.” -Ernest Hemingway, The Old Man and The Sea
“I know you had nothing to do with the injustice that brought me to this jail, so I’m willing to stay here until I get out. But I will not, under any circumstances, be treated like a prisoner — because I am not and will never be powerless.” -Rubin “Hurricane” Carter speaking to a prison warden
“The last of the human freedoms: to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way. And there were always choices to make. Every day, every hour, offered the opportunity to make a decision, a decision which determined whether you would or would not submit to those powers which threatened to rob you of your very self, your inner freedom; which determined whether or not you become the plaything to circumstance, renouncing freedom and dignity…” -Viktor Frankl, book Man’s Search For Meaning
Do not go gentle into that good night. Rage, rage against the dying of the light. -Dylan Thomas, poem “Do not go gentle into that good night.”
Regardless of the overwhelming odds, the awful circumstances, and whatever else fate sends your way, you always have a choice about two things:
Your attitude and your response.
No one or no thing can ever take that away from you. Always remember this. For that’s where your true power lies.
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