Choose and Support Your Belief

Belief is a choice.

So choose wisely.

Choose beliefs that empower and energize you. That give you confidence.

If need be, find evidence that supports your belief. Examples of people who accomplished what you set out to do (and in many cases with far less advantages and opportunities) are abundant.

Then demonstrate your belief to yourself (and others, if that’s important to you) by taking consistent action. Small, everyday wins keeps the belief flywheel turning.

It’s Never Been Easier…And Harder

It’s never been easier to learn a new skill or start a business or make and release your art. All the tools are out there for anyone who has the desire. Money is no longer an excuse.

But because it’s never been easier, it’s never been harder to stand out from the crowd. You will not succeed because of scarcity of choice.

Create out of love and passion.

Commit to excellence and generosity.

Be consistent and iterative with your action.

Hone your message. Craft your story. Tell it to anyone and everyone who will listen.

Over time, it will happen.

How To Beat The Odds

For the artist….

The odds of you being cast as a series regular (or booking consistent work) or your play being selected for production by a large regional theater (or any theater) or your novel being published by a major publisher (or any publisher) or any kind of commercial success in the arts, etc…are terrible.

There are just so many factors that go into these kind of outcomes that are beyond your control and your talent. That doesn’t mean you can’t keep shooting for it. If it’s your dream, then by all means, go for it. Just realize what you’re up against.

But if you want to beat the odds every time out. If you want to control your destiny. If you want to lead an artistic life, then here’s what you must do…

…Create and produce your own work.

Create and produce your own work.

Create and produce your won work.

It’s the way. The only way.

The 5 Minute AM/PM Check-In

Inspired by The 5 Minute Journal (a terrific product by the way), here’s a simple AM/PM routine that jump-starts your day and puts you in a good frame of mind before bedtime.

AM Questions For Reflection:

“What am I grateful for?”

“What am I excited to work on today?”

“Who can I help and love?”

“How can I serve?”

Put the pen down. Get after it!

PM Questions For Review:

“What did I learn?”

“What did I do to get better and closer to my dream?”

“Who did I love? How did I serve?”

“Where did I find joy?”

Put the pen down. Turn off the light. ‘Night, ‘night.

P.S. – These are my focusing questions. Feel free to come up with your own. Experiment over time. Find whatever works best for you and the change you want to make.

Wrong Before Right

If you want to sound smart and fit in, be a pessimist. You don’t have to risk anything. You probably won’t be criticized. You might even get lots of compliments for your smart, pessimistic views.

If you want to inspire others and change the world (and in some cases, make a lot of money), be an optimist. Just be prepared to be endlessly criticized and told you’re wrong.

Your level of optimism can be measured by the amount of time you allow yourself to be “wrong” before you’re right.

Balancing

Don’t strive for perfect balance. It’s almost impossible to achieve and even if you do, it’s fleeting at best.

Instead, strive for balancing. (This assumes process and a constancy of effort.)

If you do, you’ll be much more open to whatever fate or fortune sends your way. You’ll recognize and be okay that sometimes life is a sprint and sometimes it’s a crawl. But whatever it is, you’ll adjust, you’ll iterate, you’ll dance with it all.

Sua Sponte

“Sua Sponte” is a Latin phrase that means doing something voluntary, or doing it “of its own accord.”

The U.S. Army Rangers (insignia pictured above) are known for the motto “Rangers lead the way.” It stems from the tremendous heroism and courage they displayed at D-Day. When they stormed the beaches at Normandy.

But the Rangers official regimental motto is “Sua Sponte”. It refers to “their ability to accomplish tasks with little to no prompting and to recognize that a Ranger volunteers three times: for the U.S. Army, Airborne School, and service in the 75th Ranger Regiment.”

Much like the Latin phrase, “Ars Gratia Artis” which means “art for arts sake”, if you set out to do something or lead others or make art…do it voluntarily. No prompting. No glory. No reward.

Just do it for its own accord. For the love of the thing itself.

Do it Sua Sponte.

Sticky Habits

When you first set out to create a good habit (e.g. working out, eating healthy, reading great literature, meditating, taking a walk, etc.), you can’t imagine doing the thing every single day. The road ahead seems long and arduous.

You’ll know if you’ve succeeded (aka created a “sticky habit”) when you get to the point that you can’t imagine NOT doing the thing every single day.

When Tested

True courage doesn’t mean that you lack fear.

Quite the opposite.

True courage involves feeling tremendous fear and doing the right thing anyway. Sometimes in the face of widespread opposition.

A virtue like courage can only emerge when one is tested.