Love and Excellence

Love is the fuel of excellence. There is no other fuel. There is no other way to mastery.

If you don’t love the thing, you won’t put in the necessary work over a long enough period of time to be excellent at that thing.

If you haven’t found that love, then you have two options:

  1. Stop the pursuit of excellence. Settle.
  2. Keep looking. Don’t settle until you’ve found that love.

Favorite Films I Saw In 2024

Per my meaningful consumption practice, I try to log all the films, plays, albums, and books I consume in a year. It only takes a few minutes each day and doing so provides a nice look back at the end of the year.

In 2024, I saw 128 films (my goal was 100). I prefer films to tv, though I’ll watch a limited series if someone recommends (Ripley was really good). Some of the films listed below I’ve seen prior, but one of the great things about having two teenage sons is you get to introduce films you love to them. When it’s their first time viewing, it’s like your first time all over again (The Graduate, Before Sunrise, and Can’t Buy Me Love all come to mind. Yes, I’m a romantic at heart.) Shout out to American Cinematheque for providing an opportunity to see great, classic films on the big screen.

Okay, without further adieu, below is my baker’s dozen list (in alphabetical order)…

Act Of Violence directed by Fred Zinneman – shout to Eddie Muller and TCM for programming this film noir gem; check out the impressive diversity of Zinneman’s filmography

Apocalypse Now Redux directed by Francis Ford Coppola – had only seen the original, never this longer version; was a great opportunity to introduce the film to my younger son, Truman; a powerful and mesmerizing viewing experience for both of us

Conclave directed by Edward Berger – saw it in the theatre; an ensemble of phenomenal acting and gripping storytelling

Den Of Thieves directed by Christian Gudecast – while it may not be Heat, I love that it wants to be; an awesome bank heist movie that me and my older son, Callum loved; put this on a double bill with Shot Caller

His Three Daughters by Azazel Jacobs – great acting and a perfect ending; I love that the director cared so much to shoot it in 35mm film

Janet Planet directed by Annie Baker – saw this in the theatre with a live Q&A with the director and cast. Julianne Nicholson gives a master class in simplicity

La Dolce Vita directed by Federico Fellini – always wanted to see this masterpiece and it delivered; I definitely plan to own it and watch repeatedly

On The Waterfront directed by Elia Kazan – one my all-time favorite films; I’ve seen it countless times and own the 4k; Brando gives, in my opinion, the greatest male performance ever on screen; this was my first time seeing on the big screen however (thank you American Cinematheque); took Truman and he loved it; I wrote this blog post about the experience.

The China Syndrome directed by James Bridges – saw it twice this year; great acting including Jack Lemmon in a supporting role (speaking of Jack, I saw Save The Tiger again (he’s so good in it); introduced Callum to Glengarry Glen Ross (another personal fave; he loved it) and watched Missing for the first time.)

The Hunchback Of Notre Dame directed by William Dieterle – Charles Laughton is incredible as Quasimodo

The Last Stop In Yuma County directed by Francis Galluppi – saw a screening including a Q&A with the director and cast; a fun indie gem and true labor of love; wrote about it in this blog post

The Monk and The Gun directed by Pawo Choyning Dorji – saw it in the theatre; such a cool and imaginative premise and story

They Drive By Night directed by Raoul Walsh – great film noir; Bogey, George Raft and Ida Lupino don’t disappoint

To Kill A Tiger directed by Nisha Pahuja – a moving documentary that stayed with me; saw it in the theatre

Okay, that’s my list. I’d love to hear some your 2024 favorites. Send ’em my way!

Feelin’ Alive

How alive you feel is directly correlated to how big a risk you take.

To feel alive, you don’t have to be Johnny Utah and jump out of a plane.

You do need to face your fears though and take a chance.

Remember…no risk, no art.

More Making

A 2025 Artist Resolution (and every year resolution):

More making.

Less spectating.

P.S. – The full Neil Gaiman speech here and read the transcript here. Highly recommend.

Finish Strong

So maybe you’re Act One was just okay.

And Act Two was a disaster.

But hey, you still got time, you can give a dazzling Act Three.

Great teams, athletes and artists all share this in common:

They know how to finish strong.

Run what’s left of the race.

Go all out.

Give it everything you got.

Finish strong.

P.S. – Talk about a closing kick.

Loyal To Yourself?

Loyalty is an admirable virtue. It simply means showing up and doing what you said you were going to do.

Perhaps you pride yourself on your loyalty. You always come through for your family, friends, co-workers, neighbors, etc…

But are you loyal to yourself? Do you keep your own promises?

If not, why not?

P.S. – “The world’s worst boss.” One of my all time favorite Seth posts.

The Gift Of Your Enthusiasm

Nothing is more compelling than listening to someone’s enthusiasm and passion for whatever they’re working on. It’s rare to find those people, but when you do, it’s inspiring. Because you realize “Yes!” It is possible to feel that way.

As much as you possibly can, surround yourselves with such folks.

And realize that when you choose to find and produce your passion project, it is a gift. Not just the project itself, but also how it can inspire others to go and do likewise.

Like the infinite loop of grace, your enthusiasm is the gift that keeps on giving.

P.S. – This short TED talk by Ethan Hawke. For whenever you need a little enthusiasm boost.

Humility Means Trust

Humility isn’t about lowering or thinking less of ourselves, though as C.S. Lewis writes above, we’d be wise to think of ourselves less often. If for nothing else, peace of mind.

Humility means trust.

Trust that you are a part of something much bigger than yourself. Some thing or some force that’s been here waaaaay before you were born and will be here loooong after you are gone. Trust in the mystery, awe and wonder of it all. The big picture will work itself out however it’s supposed to work out.

Yet also trust in the beautiful dichotomy that while it’s all so much bigger than you, your seemingly small and insignificant change can make a huge impact.

It can. Humility allows you to trust in that.

Go make your art.

10-4 Over 4-10

I’ll take the “10” effort yet “4” outcome result, over the 4-10 every single day of the week.

It’s what you do when you’re not feeling it, when things aren’t going your way, that will define you in the long run.

Make your EFFORT today, your masterpiece.