One of the greatest gifts you can give another human being, especially someone who has made the brave leap to try and do something new, is your encouragement.
Encourage them early and often throughout their process.
They might not tell you they need it. But they need it. And want it. We all do.
Your gift of constant encouragement is priceless.
You don’t necessarily have to go “into the arts” to be an artist.
You just have to bring your art to everything you do.
As theatre actors, we’ve more than likely been part of one of those productions where the rehearsal process is a disaster, but then magically comes together on opening night. No movie portrays this better than John Cassavetes’ film, Opening Night. Gena Rowlands is other-wordly great. It’s brutal to watch at times, but worth it for her performance alone.
While not ideal conditions, what is it that enables these productions to come together? Is it that chaos can become fuel? Or is it simply that by virtue of setting a date, you’re on the hook? Just like taking a test, it’s happening on the day. Pass or fail, disaster or triumph, you’re still going up. Knowing this and employing Parkinson’s Law, everyone pulls it together at the last minute.
But the only way magic can ever occur…is when you actually set a date in the first place.
“Be so good they can’t ignore you.” -Steve Martin
If you haven’t read Steve Martin’s memoir “Born Standing Up: A Comic’s Life”, I highly, highly recommend it. It’s inspiring for any artist who cares deeply about their craft.
Though I might amend his above sentiment to “Be so good AND consistent AND persistent that they can’t ignore you.”
Or even better…
“Be so good, so consistent, so persistent AND self reliant that you don’t care if they ignore you.” You make your art no matter what.
Because you know the cavalry isn’t coming. You are the cavalry.
“When you walk across the fields with your mind pure and holy, then from all the stones, and all growing things, and all animals, the sparks of their soul come out and cling to you, and then they are purified and become a holy fire in you.” -ancient Hasidic saying
You can have all the passion and energy and excitement in the world to manifest your passion project, but until you set the date, give yourself an arbitrary deadline, it just won’t happen.
Once you do set that date though, and stick to it, you’ll be amazed by the power of your intention. Things will come together. You’ll attract the right people and energy for your passion project in ways you never could imagine.
But you gotta set that date.
“A fool thinks himself to be wise, but a wise man knows himself to be a fool.” -Shakespeare from his play, As You Like It
I found this recent TED talk by Ethan Hawke to be very inspiring and on point with the mission of The Vs. Studio and this blog.
It’s only about 9 minutes long and in it, he discusses a variety of topics. Most notably, how one of the best ways you can help humanity is to find and connect with what you love. And then share that passion. In doing so, you might feel foolish. But that’s your job as an artist. To “play the fool.”
Give it a watch. You’ll be glad you did.
P.S. – Also check out this recent New Yorker profile on him. It’s excellent, very in depth and no matter what you think of Hawke’s art, he’s never afraid to put himself out there and continuously challenge himself. It’s an admirable quality. The “You’re No Chekov” story he tells is awesome!
“Easy choices, hard life. Hard choices, easy life.” -Jerzy Gregorek
Most of us loathe deadlines. But when they’re put upon us by someone else (i.e. work or school), we suck it up and make our deadlines. Because we don’t really have a choice.
Arbitrary deadlines are so much harder. Because we can choose. They’re arbitrary. No one’s looking over our shoulder and telling us we have to manifest this piece of art now. The decision is all ours.
And most of us, if left to our own devices, would rather just tinker around. Not decide. Not choose to show our work. Keep hiding.
But, just like eating our veggies, arbitrary deadlines are vital to our artistic health. If we can make friends with them, set them early and often in the process, we’ll be much happier. More fulfilled. We’ll get stronger and grow. And become more confident. Because we’ll have had many artistic experiences to learn from. Experiences in which we started and finished.
Vision and passion get you in the starting blocks.
Discipline, generosity of spirit, trusted collaborators, consistency of action, having a strong “why“, love of process, good habits, and systems thinking over goals thinking, get you through the long slog and to the finish line.
I’ve uttered this phrase a lot in 2020. Not sure the derivation. Not sure the why. I just say it. Out loud.
And it’s strangely comforting.
My guess is that its related to what the Stoics termed “The Art of Acquiescence.” Letting go. Acknowledging that while things are not what we want them to be, we still must deal with them. As they actually are. With clear eyes and hearts. Nothing extra. Leaning in to the obstacle. Not pushing away or running from it.
By willing acceptance, we can deal with whatever life throws in our path.
And then, down the road, in the rearviewmirror, when we’ve fully dealt with those problems, we’ll have the energy, the confidence and the will to make lasting change. So that those problems don’t come up again.
In the meantime, for anything that comes our way…
“It is what it is.”
“Nobody knows anything.” -William Goldman
We don’t get to decide how or if our art will be remembered. If it’ll have staying power. If we’ll have any kind of legacy. It’s not up to us. Thus, we should spend zero time calculating. Zero time trying to please. Zero time trying to reach a certain demographic.
Instead, we should spend ALL our time digging deep within ourselves. Trying to find out what exactly we’re passionate to say and why.
If that desire burns hot enough, let us make our art. Manifest that passion. Do it with excellence and generosity every step of the way.
And then, let the chips fall where they may.
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