The 5x5x5 Rule For Worrying

If you encounter an issue or potential problem, first think about whether or not it will matter in 5 years.

If it won’t, don’t spend more than 5 minutes worrying about it.

If it will matter, and you’ve thought about it 5 or more times without taking any kind of action, stop worrying and do something. Take one teeny tiny step.

Remember, do nothing. Get nothing. (Other than more worrying).

Do something. You might get something. You will most assuredly learn something. And you’ll end your worrying.

Day One?

One day.

Or.

Day One.

You decide.

Is today day one of you making your art? (In addition to art, insert any good intention or desired habit here like exercising, eating healthy, getting control of your finances, getting more sleep, signing up for that class, etc…)

Or is today just another day, in a long string of days, in which you tell yourself you’ll get around to it…one day.

You decide.

Answer The Call

You can’t control how or if your art is received.

All you can do is answer the call ( or “the calling”) to make it.

But do make it. In whatever capacity you can. Because if you don’t answer the call, then rest assured my friend, it will haunt you forever.

As Well As You Can, Whenever And Wherever You Can

Whether it be 5 minutes in the audition room for a tv show you’re not crazy about and a part you’re not right for or the countless hours you spend rehearsing and then performing that dream role in the Shepard or Chekov play you love so much you produced it yourself, one thing you must do no matter what the circumstances…give it everything you got. Act as well as you can whenever and wherever you can.

If you got a chance to act today, realize it’s a gift. Be grateful for it and use that gift wisely. You never know when that gift will come back.

P.S. – Thanks to Billy Oppenheimer and his always great “Six At Six” weekly newsletter for inspiring this post.

No Extra Mustard

I recently saw a terrific production of Arthur Miller’s A View From The Bridge. (Thank you to my friend and wonderful actor Sal V. for inviting me. He and the rest of the ensemble were dynamite. Tix/info Here. I highly recommend it.)

Some friends and I were talking outside afterwards about the power of Miller’s play and why it still resonates. We all proposed our theories…my friend Alex focused on the brilliance and beauty of Miller’s language.

Alex is right. Miller writes beautiful, poetic language that as an actor you want to say, and as an audience member, you want to hear. It’s as good as it gets.

But, what I especially appreciated about this production is that the actors didn’t make a meal out of Miller’s language. They spoke it plainly and simply as everyday dialogue, just like their characters would. They didn’t stop down to “wax poetic.” They just spoke truthfully and honestly, yet full of intention.

As a result, Miller’s language was allowed to be heard and felt without interrupting the power and resonance of this timeless story.

So, a reminder to myself and my fellow actors…

Don’t make a meal out of the dialogue. Or as one director friend often says, “Don’t put any extra mustard on that hot dog. It doesn’t need it.”

For The Fans

Rick Rubin has talked about working with artists who just want to focus on making music and do nothing else. And working with The Beastie Boys, who not only worked hard on the music, but also worked tirelessly on cultivating a fan base.

Before setting out on your creative project, first ask yourself, “Who’s it for and what’s it for?”

And then once you’ve answered that question, ask yourself how hard you’re willing to work once you make your art, to get it out there.

You can choose to do nothing or very little. That’s fine. Hope for the best.

Just realize there are many others who not only make great work, but also care deeply and invest tons of creative energy into connecting with their audience.

Because ultimately, you are making it for them?…for the fans, right?

P.S. – This great Rick Rubin podcast episode with Ian Rogers. (Hat tip to my friend Ron for recommending.)

Butts In The Seats

As a producer I often get asked the question, “How do I get butts in the seats for my show?” A quick google search reveals numerous articles like this one and this one and this one that discuss strategies for doing so.

This is flawed thinking right from the jump.

Your audience is not “butts in the seats.” Your audience consists of people you know and love who will be delighted by your art. That’s who you’re making it for.

Tell them a compelling story as to how much you care about this work and why you’d love to share it with them. Tell it from the heart. Tell it with generosity and empathy for their time. And tell it consistently.

All your marketing (remember, marketing is storytelling) should be focused on that and that alone. If you do your job (you must do it throughout the ENTIRE run) and your production is indeed excellent, they will come and they will be delighted and they will tell their friends.

What Happens Next

Your number one job and it’s the hardest job–only a few can do it well–is to get the audience to want to find out what happens next. That’s it. Everything else is secondary.

(Side note: As an actor and Artistic Director, I love great character-driven stories. They’re my favorite plays to act in, to see, and to program. But when I reflect on the ones I love, I realize those have pretty good plots too. You care deeply about the characters and want to find out what happens to them.)

Beware of exposition (if you write it, excise it and then if you want, hand it out as backstory for the actor), superfluous “flashy” dialogue that serves no purpose, or anything extra that bogs down the plot.

Because once you lose your audience from wanting to find out what happens next, all Is lost. Game over. It’s curtains for you.

For the writer…

Same as above. Your number one job is to get the reader to want to keep turning pages.

Inner And Outer

As small as a proton. Even smaller.

As big as a galaxy. Even bigger.

The range and possibilities for insight, beauty and connection are limitless.

The inner and the outer.

The micro and the macro.

Aligned. Working together. In harmony.

At peace.

“The Best Play I’ve Ever Seen”

“Every time I go see a play, I’m hoping this will be the best play I’ve ever seen.”

That’s what a friend and avid theatre-goer told me recently.

While you can’t control whether your production will be judged that way, you can make it your goal.

And if it’s not your goal, why exactly are you doing it anyway?