How To Beat The Odds

For the artist….

The odds of you being cast as a series regular (or booking consistent work) or your play being selected for production by a large regional theater (or any theater) or your novel being published by a major publisher (or any publisher) or any kind of commercial success in the arts, etc…are terrible.

There are just so many factors that go into these kind of outcomes that are beyond your control and your talent. That doesn’t mean you can’t keep shooting for it. If it’s your dream, then by all means, go for it. Just realize what you’re up against.

But if you want to beat the odds every time out. If you want to control your destiny. If you want to lead an artistic life, then here’s what you must do…

…Create and produce your own work.

Create and produce your own work.

Create and produce your won work.

It’s the way. The only way.

The 5 Minute AM/PM Check-In

Inspired by The 5 Minute Journal (a terrific product by the way), here’s a simple AM/PM routine that jump-starts your day and puts you in a good frame of mind before bedtime.

AM Questions For Reflection:

“What am I grateful for?”

“What am I excited to work on today?”

“Who can I help and love?”

“How can I serve?”

Put the pen down. Get after it!

PM Questions For Review:

“What did I learn?”

“What did I do to get better and closer to my dream?”

“Who did I love? How did I serve?”

“Where did I find joy?”

Put the pen down. Turn off the light. ‘Night, ‘night.

P.S. – These are my focusing questions. Feel free to come up with your own. Experiment over time. Find whatever works best for you and the change you want to make.

Wrong Before Right

If you want to sound smart and fit in, be a pessimist. You don’t have to risk anything. You probably won’t be criticized. You might even get lots of compliments for your smart, pessimistic views.

If you want to inspire others and change the world (and in some cases, make a lot of money), be an optimist. Just be prepared to be endlessly criticized and told you’re wrong.

Your level of optimism can be measured by the amount of time you allow yourself to be “wrong” before you’re right.

Balancing

Don’t strive for perfect balance. It’s almost impossible to achieve and even if you do, it’s fleeting at best.

Instead, strive for balancing. (This assumes process and a constancy of effort.)

If you do, you’ll be much more open to whatever fate or fortune sends your way. You’ll recognize and be okay that sometimes life is a sprint and sometimes it’s a crawl. But whatever it is, you’ll adjust, you’ll iterate, you’ll dance with it all.

Sua Sponte

“Sua Sponte” is a Latin phrase that means doing something voluntary, or doing it “of its own accord.”

The U.S. Army Rangers (insignia pictured above) are known for the motto “Rangers lead the way.” It stems from the tremendous heroism and courage they displayed at D-Day. When they stormed the beaches at Normandy.

But the Rangers official regimental motto is “Sua Sponte”. It refers to “their ability to accomplish tasks with little to no prompting and to recognize that a Ranger volunteers three times: for the U.S. Army, Airborne School, and service in the 75th Ranger Regiment.”

Much like the Latin phrase, “Ars Gratia Artis” which means “art for arts sake”, if you set out to do something or lead others or make art…do it voluntarily. No prompting. No glory. No reward.

Just do it for its own accord. For the love of the thing itself.

Do it Sua Sponte.

Sticky Habits

When you first set out to create a good habit (e.g. working out, eating healthy, reading great literature, meditating, taking a walk, etc.), you can’t imagine doing the thing every single day. The road ahead seems long and arduous.

You’ll know if you’ve succeeded (aka created a “sticky habit”) when you get to the point that you can’t imagine NOT doing the thing every single day.

When Tested

True courage doesn’t mean that you lack fear.

Quite the opposite.

True courage involves feeling tremendous fear and doing the right thing anyway. Sometimes in the face of widespread opposition.

A virtue like courage can only emerge when one is tested.

Boot Away Attention Residue

Sahil Bloom recently wrote an excellent article about attention residue and how to not let it derail you. Check it out here.

In it, he provides some great strategies including having a “boot up” sequence when switching between tasks. This may involve taking a walk, doing a quick meditation, listening to classical music, etc…Anything that helps get you back on track and in flow.

Setting this advice aside, the best thing you can do happens at the outset. Which is deciding what projects (have as few as possible) are worth your consistent effort and attention.

In a world that is increasingly vying for your attention, your “No” is just as important, if not more so, than your “Yes.”

PROCESS Vs. summit

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For any big goal you want to accomplish, like climbing Mt. Everest for example (as pictured above)…

You will spend 99.9999 percent of your time on PROCESS (trying, failing, iterating, trying again)

You will spend (assuming you even reach the top) 0.0001 percent of your time enjoying the view from the summit. (Then you have to get down from the mountain which is its own process.)

Therefore, if you’re gonna attempt to do something really hard, then you…

Must.

Love.

The PROCESS.

P.S. – Speaking of mountain climbing, check out this trailer from my friend John’s hilarious mockumentary “The Hillist.”