November 5th

You know what today is don’t you?

It’s Sam Shepard’s birthday! He would’ve been 81 today. Happy birthday to the legend and fellow Scorpio brother.

If you’re looking for a break from today’s maddening and non-stop election news cycle, then why not celebrate Sam and read one of his great plays. Or his book of short stories, poems and monologues, Hawk Moon. Or one of my personal favorites, his quasi-diary of autobiographical reveries, Motel Chronicles.

And for a few minutes of levity, check out this clip of Sam and Patti playing music together. It will make you smile.

Switch Roles

For the actor…

If you’re having trouble figuring out what you want in the scene, trying reading it from the other person’s point of view. Switch roles. Their action might become more obvious to you. With which case you can then just pick an opposing action for your actual character. Presto! Instant conflict and now it’s a fun scene to play and a compelling one to watch.

This is also a great exercise for the director in rehearsals. Mike Nichols used it throughout his career including in his production of Waiting For Godot (excerpt listed above). Just like Steve Martin found out, switching roles can engender empathy throughout the entire ensemble.

Walking in someone’s else’s shoes is never a bad thing. In rehearsals and in life.

And after all, isn’t that why we do and see theatre in the first place? To gain a deeper understanding about the entire human condition.

Developing Taste

“New World Table” by John Folley

If you want to develop your talent, first develop your taste. As so much of talent is taste. Knowing what you love and why you love it. And then making what you love.

For more on this, read Brie Wolfson’s excellent essay.

The River Cannot Go Back

A stunningly good poem by Kahlil Gibran that I’ll just let speak for itself…

“Fear”

It is said that before entering the sea
a river trembles with fear.
She looks back at the path she has traveled,
from the peaks of the mountains,
the long winding road crossing forests and villages.
And in front of her,
she sees an ocean so vast,
that to enter
there seems nothing more than to disappear forever.
But there is no other way.
The river can not go back.
Nobody can go back.
To go back is impossible in existence.
The river needs to take the risk
of entering the ocean
because only then will fear disappear,
because that’s where the river will know
it’s not about disappearing into the ocean,
but of becoming the ocean.

Nobody Wears Shoes

A consistent theme of this blog is embracing the Stoic principle that while we don’t control the events of our lives, we do control our outlook on these events. Here’s a story that reinforces this timeless wisdom (h/t to Sahil Bloom’s always excellent Curiosity Chronicle for providing)…

Two salesmen were sent by a shoe manufacturer to a rural part of India to investigate and report back on market potential.

The first salesman reported back, “There is no potential here. Nobody wears shoes.”

The second salesman reported back, “There is massive potential here. Nobody wears shoes.

Exact same event.

Two completely different outlooks.

You get to choose.

And it is your choice that dictates everything that comes next.

So, what’s it gonna be? What choice will you make? What path will you take?

Ready To Burst

One way to know if you’re truly ready for the moment, is that you can’t wait to get out there. Yes you’re nervous, but more so than that, you’re bursting with enthusiasm. You can’t wait to take the stage (or play the game, take the test, give the speech, etc.)

You’ve prepared. You’ve left no stone unturned. You’ve done the work.

Now it’s time to let go, have fun and leave it all out there.

Make it your masterpiece.

P.S. – “It’s the details…”

P.P.S. – H/t to my friend Andy for the Suga Free quote and this video.

Don’t Be A Ghost

Dating in 2019: Being Ghosted – TUC

Speaking of communicating….

You can dress up like a ghost for Halloween.

But don’t be a ghost in real life.

A good rule of thumb…If you have to deliver bad news, then tell them in person or call them. Don’t do it over email or text. Or worse, ghost them.

And if you’re producing something and people aren’t getting back to you…don’t freak out, don’t get upset, don’t take it personally. Give them the benefit of the doubt. Breathe.

Then, calmly reach out to them one more time. Let them know you haven’t heard from them after several attempts, that you’re concerned, and that you do need to hear back. Even if to just let you know that they’re okay and they received your message.

At the same time, start thinking of a contingency plan. Hopefully it’s just a minor communication blip and you won’t have to engage in this plan B, but either way, you’ll feel better because you’ve taken action.

P.S. – This scene. And this music video. “I ain’t afraid of no ghost.”

Producing Is Communicating

So much of producing is communicating. Over-communicating in fact. In a collaborative medium like film or theatre, you will work with a lot of different people and as such, you will be delegating many responsibilities, while setting multiple deadlines. It is vital that you communicate well, early and often.

One thing that you can do right from the start is to know your own communication expectations and then you guessed it, communicate, those expectations to everyone. Do you prefer meetings, phone calls, emails, texts? How much or how little do you want to hear from people and departments? When you reach out to someone, how soon do you want to hear back? Also, ask them what are their preferred or best methods of communication and timeline expectations?

Inevitably you will learn from each other throughout, as communication is a fluid process. But, if you can get it right at the outset, the better your chances of everyone having a great and memorable experience. Which at the end of the day, is what it’s all about.