“If it’s important, you’ll find a way. If it’s not, you’ll find an excuse.” -Ryan Blair The only question to ask yourself: What’s the thing that you will do, no matter what? Find and start doing that. Once you do, everything else you need will show up. But until you do, nothing will show up.
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The Measure Of A Calling
The measure of a calling isn’t whether you get picked or it chooses you first. The measure is whether, despite everything…all the obstacles, all the disappointments, all the heartbreaks…you keep choosing it.
No Permission Necessary
“Perhaps, if you’re fortunate, your job is in sync with your work. But most of the time, our work is something we have to fight for. It’s not something we’re given, or apply for. It’s what we choose to do. The change we seek to make, the people we seek to serve, the decisions weContinue reading “No Permission Necessary”
Be Intentional
“Intentionality fuels the master’s journey. Every master is a master of vision.” -George Leonard “When you’re not intentional, life gets out of control. When you are intentional, life becomes manageable.” -John C. Maxwell “Be careful not to lose sight of the divine presence in any of your actions. Never undertake any work or activity withoutContinue reading “Be Intentional”
Task-Switching Costs
“There is an ongoing battle between algorithmic mass distraction and focus. Excellence requires winning it.” -Brad Stulberg, book The Way Of Excellence You may think you’re great at multitasking, but you’re not. No one is. We delude ourselves into thinking we are. Brad Stulberg cites several studies in his book The Way Of Excellence, whichContinue reading “Task-Switching Costs”
The Game Of Life
“A finite game is played for the purpose of winning, an infinite game for the purpose of continuing the play. -James P. Carse, book Finite and Infinite Games: A Vision of Life as Play and Possibility “Games make us happy because they are hard work that we choose for ourselves, and it turns out thatContinue reading “The Game Of Life”
Just Right
For the actor… As you’re working on the character, it’s important to fully explore both extremes. Go all the way to one pole and all the way to the other pole More often than not, that middle ground will be just right. Let yourself experience “too hot.” Let yourself experience “too cold.” Then, you willContinue reading “Just Right”
Start At The End
“In the end Is my beginning.” -T.S. Eliot For the actor… The intensity (aka “how you’ve got sh*t cooking inside you”) you have at the end of the scene?…Now go back and start the scene with that same intensity. Note: This is especially helpful for auditions. (h/t to my friend Ron for reminding me ofContinue reading “Start At The End”
How To Keep “The Black Dog” Away
“Work norishes noble minds.” -Seneca “Depression hates a moving target.” -George Mack Feeling blah? Not sure what to do? Wanting to keep “The Black Dog” (aka Depression) from visiting you? Stop thinking and start working. Especially something physical. How about bricklaying? It worked for Winston Churchill (his daily regimen was “200 bricks and 2000 words”)Continue reading “How To Keep “The Black Dog” Away”
All In?
“Until one is committed there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help oneContinue reading “All In?”