Diane Keaton On Confidence

“I never understood the idea that you’re supposed to mellow as you get older. Slowing down isn’t something I relate to at all. The goal is to continue in good and bad, all of it. To continue to express myself, particularly. To feel the world. To explore. To be with people. To take things far. To risk. To love. I just want to know more and see more.” -Diane Keaton

We just had a fantastic “Bring Your Art” Night tonight as part of our Vs. Tuesday Night Readings. So many incredibly talented artists shared pieces that were meaningful to them. My good friend Gareth shared the below piece he discovered about Diane Keaton and I thought to share it with all of you…

During the filming of Hampstead (2017), Diane Keaton had a moment that perfectly blurred the line between acting and life. There was a quiet scene where her character, Emily, looks out over the heath — lost, aging, and unsure if she still matters. Between takes, Keaton stayed in character, staring into the distance long after the director called “cut.” When someone asked if she was all right, she smiled faintly and said, “I’m just thinking how strange it feels when the world stops needing you — and you have to start needing yourself.”

The crew went silent. It wasn’t in the script, but it summed up everything Hampstead was about —loneliness, courage, and the rediscovery of self-
worth. Later, when Brendan Gleeson joined her for a scene, Keaton whispered before they started, “Let’s make them believe that two lost people can still find
home.”

Off-camera, Keaton talked openly about how much she related to Emily’s vulnerability. “People think confidence is something you have forever,” she said
during an interview. “It isn’t. You rebuild it, piece by piece, every time life breaks a part of you.”

Her honesty moved even the hardened crew members. One lighting technician recalled, “That day, she wasn’t just acting. She was showing us how to survive being human.”

By the time Hampstead wrapped, the film had become more than a gentle love story — it was Diane Keaton’s quiet manifesto: that it’s never too late to start
over, never too late to be seen, and never too late to be brave.

R.I.P. Ms. Keaton. Your immense talent and beautiful spirit will be so greatly missed.