Take It Away

Instead of trying to add more to your life. More desires, more stuff, more whatever.

See how much you can take away.

Eventually you will arrive where you started. With everything you need. Nothing more. Nothing less. True satisfaction. True perfection.

Take it away. Take it away. Take it away now.

Let Them Help You

Speaking of the art of asking

When is the last time you asked someone for help?

If it’s been a while or never, why is that?

Do you fear rejection? Perhaps you don’t want to be perceived as anything less than completely self-reliant? Or maybe you just don’t want to bug people?

One of the greatest gifts you can give another person, especially a close friend or family member, is to simply allow them to help you. But you need to ask for it. And be specific.

So many people out there are waiting and wanting to help you.

Let them.

P.S. – This excellent Marginalian article on the “Benjamin Franklin Effect and How To Handle The Haters.”

By Committee

Deciding by committee what art to make never works. At best, you get a watered-down, boring version. Certainly, nothing excellent.

Rather the decision must be made by a single individual who is passionate and committed to that art.

Once decided, you can absolutely produce said art by committee. Especially in film or theatre where collaboration is necessary and vital.

However in order to succeed and thrive, each committee must be spearheaded by a single individual who is the most knowledgable and passionate about the task at hand. And, after weighing input from the committee members, that individual solely decides what, when and how the task will be carried out.

Otherwise nothing gets done. Or at least, nothing excellent.

The Annoyance Economy

The most valuable currency in the world isn’t gold or greenbacks or crypto.

It’s your attention.

Everyone is vying for it. So much so, they could care less about annoying you.

Just know this and consume wisely my friend.

P.S. – This article from the always excellent Ted Gioia.

“What Can I Do?”

If you’re asking and wondering, “What can I do?”…first, do your job. Whatever that is. Parent, spouse, child, friend, artist, co-worker, employer, employee, neighbor, etc…Do it to the best of your ability. Do it with all your heart. Do it virtuously. That’s the biggest contribution you can make.

Then, with whatever bandwidth you have left over (should you have any), help one person at a time. Help the person nearest you. Help them however you can.

Trust that the ripple effect from doing your job well, coupled with simple helpful actions, is the stuff of miracles.

Everything Else Will Take Care Of Itself

Speaking of great people

If you’re looking to work for a company, prioritize finding out everything you can about the culture. If that’s right and you admire the people working there, then go for it. Accept the offer. Everything else will take care of itself.

Conversely, if you’re a company looking to hire someone, prioritize their attitude, enthusiasm, work ethic, openness and can-do spirit. If they have these rare qualities and other soft skills, then go for it. Hire them. Everything else will take care of itself.

It’s All About The People

You can have the coolest brand, the most inspiring vision and the greatest mission statement in the world, but if you have mediocre or unmotivated people carrying out all this meaningful work, then you have nothing.

Which Wolf Will You Feed?

There’s an old Native American story that goes like this:

A grandfather takes his grandson on a walk to share his wisdom for life.

“A fight is going on inside me,” he tells the boy. “It’s a terrible fight between two wolves. One is bad, he is anger, fear, hate, jealousy, and envy. One is good, he is hope, kindness, joy, love, and optimism.”

The boy asks, “Which wolf will win?”

To which the grandfather replies:

“The one you feed.”

Every single day when you wake up, you get to choose which wolf you will feed.

Choose wisely my friend.

The Art Of Asking

Similar to making art, asking involves first knowing what you want and why you want it.

Then, you must take a risk and be vulnerable. You have to actually ask for what you want.

But you might not get it.

And that’s okay.

Because the real value is in the ask.