default setting: (noun) (1) a setting that is automatically given to a software application, computer program or device (2) the way in which someone normally behaves and reacts What’s your default state? (Or default setting.) For many, it’s fear or pessimism. Some of that’s wiring. As not so long ago (about 10,000 years), being devouredContinue reading “Default State”
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Thank You Note
Wanting to do some good, but not sure where to start? Here’s something… Think of a person or organization you care about. Get out a pen and paper. Write them a note of gratitude. Mail your note. That seemingly small gesture has tremendous impact. P.S. – While a text or email technically communicates your message,Continue reading “Thank You Note”
To Criticize
“We need very strong ears to hear ourselves judged frankly, and because there are few who can endure frank criticism without being stung by it, those who venture to criticize us perform a remarkable act of friendship, for to undertake to wound or offend a man for his own good is to have a healthyContinue reading “To Criticize”
Make It Special
“People do not decide to become extraordinary. They decide to accomplish extraordinary things.” -Edmund Hillary When you aim to do something special or extraordinary, you never have to worry if there’s a market or audience for your work. Rest assured, there is. There always will be.
Noise In Your Head
The only way to know if you’re “there yet” is to DO something. Whatever you’re thinking about (writing that script, starting that business, making that change, etc.)…DO it. Once it’s done, then you can evaluate its merits. Whether it lived up to the initial idea. See if you need to iterate. Otherwise, it will allContinue reading “Noise In Your Head”
Let Go
“When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.” -Lao-Tzu “All great spirituality teaches about letting go of what you don’t need and who you are not. Then, when you can get little enough and naked enough and poor enough, you’ll find that the little place where you really areContinue reading “Let Go”
A Good Strong Cup Of Coffee
Energy and enthusiasm spur you on to make big plans and dreams. (And maybe a good strong cup of coffee.) Discipline, devotion, accountability partners and having good systems (and maybe a good strong cup of coffee as well) enable you to follow through on all those plans when energy and enthusiasm are low or nonexistent.
Even When…
Be more proud of yourself when the day goes to shit and you still manage to get something done towards your dream as you are when everything lines up perfectly and you’re a productivity superstar. What you do even when forces seem to conspire against, is what ultimately will define you.
The Loneliness Epidemic
the flesh covers the bone and they put a mind in there and sometimes a soul, and the women break vases against the walls and the men drink too much and nobody finds the one but keep looking crawling in and out of beds. flesh covers the bone and the flesh searches for more than flesh. there’s no chance at all: we are all trapped by a singular fate. nobody ever finds the one. the city dumps fill theContinue reading “The Loneliness Epidemic”
You Do You
All ya can do is do what you mustYou do what you must do and ya do it well -Bob Dylan, song “Buckets Of Rain” “Comparison is the thief of joy.” -Teddy Roosevelt “Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.” -Arthur Ashe All you can do is what you canContinue reading “You Do You”