The Magic Focusing Question

“What is the ONE thing you could do right now such that by doing it, everything else would be easier or unnecessary?” – Gary Keller, author of The ONE Thing Apply that question to all aspects of your life. Health, Family, Art, Work, Finances, Service, Fun, Etc… Apply that to your current states and feelings.Continue reading “The Magic Focusing Question”

Throw Your Cap Over The Wall

The word decision is derived from the Latin word, decidere, which means “to cut off.” When you decide to do something, you cut off all other options. That’s it. You’re all in. To quote the Irish writer, Frank O’Connor, you “throw your cap over the wall.” Right now. Make some decisions. Decide we’re all gonnaContinue reading “Throw Your Cap Over The Wall”

Searching For Certainty

“Choose not to be harmed and you won’t feel harmed. Don’t feel harmed and you haven’t been.” -Marcus Aurelius Stop searching for certainty outside yourself. It’s not some ethereal thing. Certainty comes from within. From your own power to choose. Choose connection. Choose strength. Choose resiliency. Choose flexibility. Choose generosity. Choose optimism. Choose to makeContinue reading “Searching For Certainty”

Friday Night Light & Wisdom

We’re gonna get through this. We’re gonna come out stronger. We’re gonna gonna come out with more humanity and love and connectedness. Here’s how. With… CLEAR EYES. Not seeing what we want to see or wish we could see, but seeing things as they truly are. Without judgment or irrationality. Just perceiving what is. AndContinue reading “Friday Night Light & Wisdom”