
“Every circumstance comes with two handles, which one of which you can hold it, while with the other conditions are insupportable.”
― Epictetus, Discourses and Selected Writings
“We can grab onto resentment—or gratitude. We can focus on obstacles—or look closer and see opportunities. Gratitude shifts our perspective and transforms even the harshest realities into tools for growth.” -Ryan Holiday
“Convince yourself that everything is the gift of the gods, that things are good and always will be.” -Marcus Aurelius, Meditations
“I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want…Give thanks in all circumstances.” -Saint Paul
“Nietzsche was the one who did the job for me. At a certain moment in his life, the idea came to him of what he called “the love of your fate.”
Whatever your fate is, whatever the hell happens, you say, “This is what I need.” It may look like a wreck, but go at it as though it were an opportunity, a challenge. If you bring love to that moment — not discouragement — you will find the strength is there. Any disaster you can survive is an improvement in your character, your stature, and your life. What a privilege!
Then, when looking back at your life, you will see that the moments which seemed to be great failures followed by wreckage were the incidents that shaped the life you have now. The crisis throws you back, and when you are required to exhibit strength, it comes.” -Source: Joseph Campbell, Reflections on the Art of Living (edited lightly for clarity; h/t to James Clear)
Gratitude: Thankful for the “good.”
Next level grattitude: Thankful for the “bad.”
Jedi level gratitude: Not labelling things as “good” or “bad.” They just are. Being thankful for all of life. Amor Fati is the key.
Happy Thanksgiving dear reader. Thankful for all of you and your constant encouragement of this blog. Closing in on #1,300!
P.S. – Those aren’t pillows!